How to Choose Wedding Shoes

Beautiful looks in general and wedding looks in particular require a special consideration and care, since every detail and every nuance is important for the complete and absolutely stunning looks. Wedding shoes are no less important than any of the details composing your looks, so you really should think twice before stopping your choice on a particular model. So we are going to help you a little bit with that, introducing the top comprehensive guide for choosing wedding shoes taking all the details and the additional elements into account and having the chance to create maximum effective and memorable looks for that special day.

How to Choose Wedding Shoes

What You Need To Take Into Account When Choosing Bridal Shoes

So starting with the basic details that you should take into account we can point out the following factors that you should really consider when picking a specific design of bridal shoes!

The Length of the Bridal Dress

So the primary factor that actually matters for your choice is the length of the bridal dress (check out: How to Choose a Wedding Dress). According to the ideal model you should pick the wedding shoes and only after that pass to the dress, since the latter can be modified according to the shoes. Still, if you happen to do everything with the reverse order you should at least be sure that you will feel comfortable with those shoes, including being secure that the shoes won’t get clung on anything and won’t create dissonance with the style and the color of the dress.

For short and sleeveless wedding dresses you may pick some sandal-type shoes or light open designs. As for weightless and sky-touching models of wedding dresses, we may recommend open shoes with medium heels and some ribbon-like straps around the ankle. While the ballerina shoes will look just perfectly with the ballet type dresses. One more thing about the wedding shoes that you should remember is that you need to pick a pair, which will counterbalance the dress, for instance being more reserved and cooler for extravagant and chic dresses.

The Bright Tones

Before opting for shoes with bright tones like classic red you should know that this choice is for the boldest ladies (Check out: How to Wear Rainbow Bright Shoes). And the level of boldness even reaches the level of picking brightly colored dresses! So in this case your shoes should either complement your looks or delicately counterbalance them, possibly coming with decorative details like beads and adorned with shades like ivory, red, or navy blue. Traditionally you either need to find exactly the same shade of the shoes as your dress is or two tones darker. Thus, when opting for a green wedding dress you may pick yellow, golden, or beige heels. In that case you should also have a matching accessory on just like a hat, or a bracelet, a bolero, a handbag, or just the wedding bouquet! The most important thing is not to overdose with the choice of the colorful wedding shoes, especially if the accents of the design fall on the decorations of the dress including embroidery, rhinestones, frills, pearls, beads, and big florals. Minimalistic alternatives can also be considered here. Pumps with colorful prints and very nice decorations can do the job. Still, if your dress is minimalistic and not eye-catching, you may pick the widest range of gorgeous and experimental alternatives for your shoes in any case preserving the harmony of mind and soul. Sometimes many playful and creative brides even match the shade of the socks of their future husbands with the thematic concentration of their heels and the day. The groom may also limit with simply picking a matching tie.

Designs with Platforms and Heels

Killer heels, however cool and stylish they may seem, are not the best alternatives for your wedding looks. Comfort is the first and the most important thing that you should really have for that day, since you are going to spend at least some 12 hours on your shoes the entire day! So you might need moving, walking around, etc. and you really wouldn’t like to have that feeling of being exhausted and tired to death even stronger when the day is over.

Opting for elongated stiletto shoes may not be such a good idea either, since this design may make your feet visually bigger. As for the length, if your future hubby is not much taller than you, then you may choose some average height in order not to become taller than him! The narrowing types of the heels are probably the comfiest alternatives that you may pick. Such heels are not too tall as a rule and they are extremely comfy.

Flats for the Best Looks

No matter how hard you may try you won’t find any written rules about the compulsory necessity of the bride to wear heels on her wedding! So if you want to enjoy the day to the full, why don’t you just pick a pair of adorable and exclusively delicately designed flats? It’s true of course, that the heels are irreplaceable for slimming the figure and making you taller, but if you are feeling discomfort on heels and if you are to choose between heels and comfort, the latter is more important we assume.

Changing Bridal Shoes

Still, if you don’t want to leave your heels at home and don’t want to feel ill at ease either, you can use a clever trick simply taking the pair of the comfy heels with you to change your gorgeous high heels whenever you need them!

Be Bolder!

It’s your day so you need to enjoy it to the full! So don’t think of others’ opinions and choose whatever you would personally like to have! This also includes extravagant alternatives like those wedding shoes adorned with pearls, crystals and even such crazy options as studded boots!

White or Ivory Shades

If you are on the side of classics, then the white or ivory options are just what you need. Especially if you want to match the tone of your shoes with that of your dress then you should be really careful with finding the exact shade, which might be visible from beneath the layers of the dress. Watching the tones under sunlight to be sure about the tone plays is also a good idea.

Walk on Your Shoes Before the Wedding

This is also very important, since your wedding day should not be the first day you wear your shoes. You should be prepared for that and you should really get used to your wedding shoes to be able to have “trained” legs and feet. In addition, when buying the shoes you need to try them out several times, doing via several ways. You may try them out standing, sitting, walking round making sure that your fingers are not stifled or pressed and also making sure that the shoes are comfortable in general. One more thing about buying wedding shoes is that you should pick options made of natural leather to give your feet a chance to breathe throughout the entire day. The best time for going shopping is the second half of the day when your feet naturally swell a little bit. Trying the shoes on with your tights on is also a sing of good manners.

What to Do with the Bridal Shoes after Wedding?

If you have bought the dress and have decided to keep it a family relic, then you have three possible scenarios you may choose in between for your wedding shoes. You may keep them with the dress, give them away, or change the shade and combine them with other pieces for causal or special combinations.

Take the Season Into Account

This is another thing that you should really be cautious about. So you may pick some open toe options if it’s warm outdoors, but definitely not for the cold months, for which the classic pumps will be quite okay.

How to Choose Bridal Shoes

Some More Details About Choosing Wedding Shoes

Now, after introducing the basics, we would also like to have your attention for a couple of more details for being able to make really good and effective choices!

Don’t Forget to Take the Place Into Account

The place where the ceremony is to take place is just as important for the choice of the heels. For instance, if you are planning to have the biggest part of the day on the beach, then classic heels with great possibility will sink into the sands right away, which is why you need some beach-ready bridal shoes, or else you can walk on the sand barefoot.

Pay Attention to Your Wedding Theme

Your wedding theme is the following detail that you might take into account. For instance, if the wedding theme you’ve used for the invitations and the overall design of the day is pink or red, then you may pick the details accordingly. The style is also important, for instance, when picking a vintage and romantic design of shoes for an appropriate dress not forgetting about the delicate details like lace patterns. The most important thing is not to go to extreme lengths with your matching experiments. For instance, if you have picked a dress that’s lavishly desecrated with lace patterns, then the bridal shoes should be of some other type.

Take Your Time

Start the preparations long before the wedding day to be able to choose everything in time and not to rush to quick picks at the very last moment. So be sure to leave the wide choice of design alternatives before the wedding to make correct decisions.

Pay Attention to Such Details as Slippery Floor!

This might seem unimportant but this is, in fact quite important since having a flawless walk on the aisle is something essential for the wedding. So in order to avoid failure, you need to make sure you won’t slip. And don’t forget about the plasters for the possible irritation of the feet.

Try to Match the Color of Your Heels With the Color of Your Dress

So first of all you need to find out whether you want the tone of the heels contrast or complement the tone of your dress. This depends on the latter too. For instance, if your dress is of white or ivory shade you may match your shoes with the identical shades, but if the dress has some bolder tones, then you need to be sure about picking a complementary shade, which should also match the design and the shade of the dress and the accessories.

In the Long Run Pick Whatever Makes You Feel Confident

Confidence is really very important for wedding and in order to feel confident you can even make some design alterations with the rest of the pieces just because a certain pair of shoes makes you feel confident and complex-free. So this again brings to the idea of picking the wedding shoes before buying the dress to get everything started from the right place. This is the quickest way to feel like the queen of the day and of course the queen of the party!

Find Your Inspiration

Inspiration is just as important for the creation of beautiful looks, so you should really look through some suggestions from the celebs or the fashion shows of popular designers to find some trendy and gorgeous ideas for your own looks, thus finding a source of inspiration. This is especially true and actual for the moments when you start getting into panic just because you can’t figure out what type of shoes or which pair of shoes you exactly need. So instead of worrying and panicking, you may find the answers from experts!

General Steps that Should Be Taken Into Account

So in order to sum up all the tips regarding buying the best wedding shoes for you, we can present the following accordance of steps that you should follow in order to create impressive and beautiful combinations with the help of your shoes and your dress and all the rest of the details. So the steps go as follows!

Figure out the Exact Material of the Shoes

The widest variety of shoes can be found in order to provide you with just as many options for wedding looks. For instance, you may choose raw silk, crepe, or satin bridal shoes. Still, you may also deviate from this rule sometimes going for some different materials, which may add a specific accent on the creativity of your looks.

Choose the Complementary Shade and Design

So this is the second step for which you just need to figure out the exact tones, which will complement the dress or just nicely counterbalance it, and saying this we mean the synthesis of the designs and the shades. You may even match your wedding shoes with some accessories be those silver or gold jewelry and possibly have the coolest looks ever.

Don’t Underestimate the Factor of Comfort

As you keep on finding gorgeous and stunning models for shoes you should really be quite cautious and attentive for the choice of the comfortable shoes. They may have the most diverse and interesting designs and shapes ever, but you really need to know and to feel that they are comfortable. If you ace walking on heels, then the gorgeous model is just ready. Still, you may also take your time and make your feet get used to that particular model of shoes walking on them days before the wedding.

Match the Occasion and the Theme of the Day

So what you need to do is to be really watchful and aware of the possible difficulties that you might encounter when picking a pair of killer heels. The latter may really be gorgeous, but at the same time they will just exhaust you leaving without help at the end of the day.

Be Careful With the Whites

The tones of white can also have a tricky part, since you have to match the white tones of your wedding shoes and dress just exactly unlike the rest of the shades, which allow us a comparable freedom of choice.

How to Choose Wedding Shoes

Choosing shoes for wedding is one of the most exciting and responsible things that you have to go through and we do hope that this range of curious dos and don’ts will only help you to make quicker decisions and to come up with final ideas sooner. So find your inspiration, be careful with the details and learn how to harmonize everything with each other in order to create some perfect and really flawless looks for any place and style you may further have the ceremony in. The most important thing is to be careful about the proportions and the play pairs and to just throw your complexes away feeling that it’s thoroughly your day and you are to tell it where to flow to! So enjoy it to the full and don’t let anything spoil your mood!

Photos courtesy of Yervant Photography

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